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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 20:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 15:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: CindyS</title>
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		<description>I&#039;m probably one of the worst people to invite to a home.  I don&#039;t bring anything unless hubby says something like &#039;should we bring wine?&#039; and I don&#039;t bring chocolate or anything unless I have told them I&#039;m bringing dessert.

Another friend of mine did finally say to me &#039;you know you can come to my house without a gift!&#039; and I thought, &#039;okay then, that works&#039;.

I certainly don&#039;t expect anything and am sometimes caught off guard if someone brings flowers because I have to find that vase, are the scissors in the holder?, and now I have cutting all over the kitchen which was already a mess because I&#039;m cooking.  Not that I don&#039;t love the thought but for me, it&#039;s about relaxing with people you like to be with.

Again though, if it&#039;s a more formal event I do bring wine - hubby and I don&#039;t really drink so we have bottles all over the place.

If it&#039;s Christmas I would rather bring a small ornament or something like that the hostess doesn&#039;t have to spend too much time over as I know they are busy.

Then there is my other friend who will buy a freshly baked loaf of bread for a dollar and come over where we cut it up, slather butter all over it and gobble it up together ;)

CindyS</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m probably one of the worst people to invite to a home.  I don&#8217;t bring anything unless hubby says something like &#8217;should we bring wine?&#8217; and I don&#8217;t bring chocolate or anything unless I have told them I&#8217;m bringing dessert.</p>
<p>Another friend of mine did finally say to me &#8216;you know you can come to my house without a gift!&#8217; and I thought, &#8216;okay then, that works&#8217;.</p>
<p>I certainly don&#8217;t expect anything and am sometimes caught off guard if someone brings flowers because I have to find that vase, are the scissors in the holder?, and now I have cutting all over the kitchen which was already a mess because I&#8217;m cooking.  Not that I don&#8217;t love the thought but for me, it&#8217;s about relaxing with people you like to be with.</p>
<p>Again though, if it&#8217;s a more formal event I do bring wine &#8211; hubby and I don&#8217;t really drink so we have bottles all over the place.</p>
<p>If it&#8217;s Christmas I would rather bring a small ornament or something like that the hostess doesn&#8217;t have to spend too much time over as I know they are busy.</p>
<p>Then there is my other friend who will buy a freshly baked loaf of bread for a dollar and come over where we cut it up, slather butter all over it and gobble it up together <img src='http://www.likesbooks.com/aarafterhours/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>CindyS</p>
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		<title>By: Missie</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 02:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, it depends on several things -- the specialty/formality of the occasion, the type of gathering, relationship with the host/hostess, etc.

I think, also, with the economy&#039;s rather shaky shape, gift-giving is more reserved, generally, anyway.

For example, we often have family gatherings at my in-laws, and we don&#039;t jump to thinking &quot;hostess gift.&quot; But when my in-laws were hosting an informal family gathering for their 59th wedding anniversary, we brought flowers -- &#039;though those were, technically, a gift for their anniversary.

Most of our large family gatherings are pot luck, and so the &quot;hostess gift&quot; is the contribution to the meal that we bring -- and/or the clean-up in the kitchen afterwards. Other gatherings are informal, with good friends, and once again, a hostess gift doesn&#039;t really feel necessary.

So really, it&#039;s the reason for the occasion and the relationship to the host/hostess that determine whether I feel a gift is called for. For example, with my ex-husband&#039;s family, there would be some family gatherings with family members we didn&#039;t see too often, and we weren&#039;t always included with the pot luck portion, so on those occasions, I would select a plant or flower arrangement or some such.

All that being said, I NEVER expect or anticipate a hostess gift whenever I have guests -- I just look forward to hanging out with them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, it depends on several things &#8212; the specialty/formality of the occasion, the type of gathering, relationship with the host/hostess, etc.</p>
<p>I think, also, with the economy&#8217;s rather shaky shape, gift-giving is more reserved, generally, anyway.</p>
<p>For example, we often have family gatherings at my in-laws, and we don&#8217;t jump to thinking &#8220;hostess gift.&#8221; But when my in-laws were hosting an informal family gathering for their 59th wedding anniversary, we brought flowers &#8212; &#8216;though those were, technically, a gift for their anniversary.</p>
<p>Most of our large family gatherings are pot luck, and so the &#8220;hostess gift&#8221; is the contribution to the meal that we bring &#8212; and/or the clean-up in the kitchen afterwards. Other gatherings are informal, with good friends, and once again, a hostess gift doesn&#8217;t really feel necessary.</p>
<p>So really, it&#8217;s the reason for the occasion and the relationship to the host/hostess that determine whether I feel a gift is called for. For example, with my ex-husband&#8217;s family, there would be some family gatherings with family members we didn&#8217;t see too often, and we weren&#8217;t always included with the pot luck portion, so on those occasions, I would select a plant or flower arrangement or some such.</p>
<p>All that being said, I NEVER expect or anticipate a hostess gift whenever I have guests &#8212; I just look forward to hanging out with them!</p>
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